4. They Laugh Easily
I usually say that if you don’t laugh during physical intimacy, you are doing it with the wrong person.
Laughter and intimacy go hand in hand because they both require vulnerability.
When you’re laughing with someone, it means you are comfortable and open with them.
And when you’re physically intimate with someone, it also requires vulnerability and trust.
So, couples who can laugh together during these moments are happier than those who can’t.
Physical intimacy doesn’t always have to be serious.
That’s B.O.R.I.N.G!
Happy couples embrace the awkward and funny moments that can pop up in the bedroom.
They laugh it off instead of letting it ruin the mood.
I’d have given some personal examples, but that’d be TMI.
But let’s say there have been plenty of times when my husband and I have burst into laughter during intimate moments.
And instead of feeling embarrassed, we roll with it and continue having a good time.
In fact, those moments bring us even closer because we can be ourselves with each other.
Humor is a powerful bonding tool; when you can laugh together in those vulnerable moments, you create memories that bring you guys closer.
5. They Create a Comfortable Atmosphere
My housekeeper knows she should wash our bathroom daily, mop the bedroom floor, change the bedsheets frequently, make the bed daily, and organize the room.
My bedroom isn’t just a place to crash—it’s our sanctuary.
That’s why I don’t hold back when it comes to making it smell good.
I splurge on high-quality candles, essential oils, and room sprays to create a relaxing and inviting atmosphere.
Happy couples have this mindset too.
Imagine coming home after having a long day at work.
You walk into a room with fresh sheets, maybe a soft lamp glowing in the corner, and the fan, AC, or heater on (depending on your weather condition).
Calming, isn’t it?
Compare that to entering a room with clothes scattered everywhere, a bed that hasn’t been made since morning, and a buzzing phone on the nightstand.
Which one feels more inviting?
Exactly.
Happy couples make sure their bedroom feels warm and welcoming.
If your bedroom looks like a war zone right now, no wahala.
Start small—clear a little clutter, change the sheets, maybe add a soft pillow or a cozy blanket.
You’ll be amazed at how much more inviting your room feels.
And when the atmosphere is right, connecting with your partner feels natural.
Comfortable room, comfortable vibes—happy couple.
Simple as that.
And don’t forget, it’s a team effort.
It’s not one person doing all the tidying while the other lounges around or turns it upside down.
